GYM: Started and closed with military presses, which seems to be a functional way to approach things. This worked DESPITE me having to take not only two Night Nurse but also two (TWO) nuclear strength sleeping pills (The ones that are running out, you know) AND spend the occasional hour or two trying to persuade Jess to stop hitting me in the head ( Read more... )

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Events: a man sent me 5 pictures of his dick and a load of gibberish about my genitals at 7am so I didn't get to sleep when I was intending to, meaning that I didn't get up when I was intending to, meaning that I didn't get to the gym (this was also in part because I had WICKED DOMs up until about half an hour ago and can hardly fucking walk ( Read more... )

Mother of fuck, I thought I'd been updating this thing. OKAY ( Read more... )

It's Trans Day of Remembrance but I have also spent most of last night drowning in lung goo, coughing, and having horrible dreams so I don't want to compound that particular misery with more sadness. I am so tired now - and Jess too, from her job - that we had no energy to fight and therefore managed Sunday lunch and clothes shopping without any ( Read more... )

Unlike apparently everyone else who flings themselves at words, I still prefer the "actually writing" bit to the "I have written" bit unless there's something worthwhile to distract me from the HIDEOUS GAP between "finished doing a thing" and "someone has acknowledged that I've done the thing, therefore it is Real ( Read more... )

please read. important thing.

attempting to ensure trans dudes in the uk are slightly less fucked over by economic impact of brexit than before, also vaguely important.

third thing: my dressings are off (barring nipples). check out the total absence of tits ( Read more... )

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I've been out with Ruthi twice in two days and I'm seeing her again tomorrow Ruthi I hope you're not sick of me yet ( Read more... )

It is easier to look at a historical figure or fictional character and see parts of yourself reflected in them, and to feel sympathetic to those parts and say "that shaped you and it was a shitty thing" of them than it is to do of yourself ( Read more... )